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Dawud Marsh's avatar

I have always said that the small changes we make to ourselves have a ripple effect beyond us, just the butterfly effect. Looking after ourselves means we are better able to look after others. I do my small bit to look after myself and I was given some amazing feedback a while ago. I had to have surgery on one of my fingers to resolve recurring trigger finger. Post op and I’m talking to the nurses who did such a wonderful job caring for me, realising how anxious I was about the operation and recovery. I was telling them of the work I do supporting adults with learning difficulties and disabilities, I run a project with my wife in London. Anyway, I see looking after myself by being to others as you would have them be to you. I was finally allowed to go home - my blood pressure was way too high after the operation but lowered after a while - and the patient in the bed next to me said “I hope you don’t mind, but i over heard your conversations with the nurses. You are so respectful and kind and I am so glad to know that someone like you supports the people you do in your work.” I nearly cried. I struggle to accept praise, but this floored me. The reason I share this is because I try to be kind to myself, and therefore kindness to others is a natural action. This is how we change the world, I believe. I’m going to use your easily prompts - I’ve come to this a little late - but I want to use them to see the world differently but also inspire myself to small daily acts of creativity.

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Casandra's avatar

I love this adventure, my birthday is also in August! Is yours on the 7th? 🙂

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